Rule #5 - Take advice from the right people

Our Bare Cub nappy - a great fit from birth until toilet training

This is a really important point. There is so much contradicting advice in the world of cloth nappies and I often feel it confuses people and leads to many aborting cloth or even ruining their nappies.

Here's a really common scenario. A mum posts on a facebook page about washing her nappies. She gets about 30 different responses. There are people linking her to homemade detergents, telling her its OK to put her nappies in her dryer, to hang them in the Australia sun until they melt of the clothes line and that vinegar and some napisan never hurt their stash. This poor mum is suddenly bombarded with options.

It's really important to note here that this mum doesn't know any of these people. None of these people have any credentials. They all mean well and want to help. But sometimes it's best not to even ask in the first place.

So who should you ask for advice? Well I recommend you search out advice from the right people. If you had a question about Baby Bare Cloth Nappies, I'd recommend you email me. I can give you the right information about fit and care for my nappies. I can tell you that if you wash them in napisan or put them in your washer on hot, you will be voiding you warranty. No nappy is bullet proof. Manufacturers give you the best advice they can to help you prolong the life of an article of clothing that will be subjected to the harshest conditions - urine, washing several times a week, being worn constantly and then whatever else a parent may do to them - bleach, heat, vinegar etc.

If you take the advice of someone who tells you they have always washed their nappies in home made Rocking Green detergent and it's great, you will be the one facing the possibility of ruined nappies. I've seen it. Most mum's are not chemists and mixing up a concoction to wash in is not something just anyone should be doing. A well meaning parent may not even know the damage they have done to their own nappies whilst recommending a certain action to others.

My second source of advice is around general nappy use, fit and problems. I recommend you seek out someone who is independent of a particular brand. While I try to be honest with parents about whether my products will suit your child, it is not always the case with every manufacturer. After all, a nappy brand wants you in their nappies so the advice may not always lead you to the best solution for you.

I recommend contacting someone who supplies a range of cloth nappy brands. Tennille at Apikali can help you if you are looking for a nappy that is most suitable for you or any other questions regarding general nappy use. She runs a library (in which our gorgeous Bare Cub features) which you can borrow to try a range of nappies on your child. Linda from Inarchie & Babe is also a retailer of our nappies and a great source of nappy help and information. You can talk to Linda in person, together with Elissa at Little Green Footprints in Elsternwich Victoria at the weekly nappy lab. This lab is designed to allow parents to see a demonstration of cloth nappies and ask any questions they may have (you also get to touch and feel the products in person!).

So, next time you want some information about your nappies, try going straight to the right sources. There are lots of well meaning and helpful parents out there, but we are constantly seeing parents being given poor advice.

Rule #4 - Buy a good nappy that suits YOU & YOUR child

It goes without saying you get what you pay for - well in most circumstances.

In the nappy world I find this is very true of the cheapest nappies, otherwise known as the China Cheepie.

My fourth rule of cloth nappying is to buy a good nappy. So many parents buy $3 nappies off ebay, only to have them leak, fall apart and unsurprisingly they quit cloth nappies for good. Excellent intentions ruined by the wrong purchase.

If you want to succeed in cloth nappies, you need to buy a good nappy. This means a nappy that will work for you. Which nappy is this you ask? It's the nappy that is well reviewed by the public, comes with excellent absorbency options, a warranty and is a good fit for your child. A nappy that doesn't meet those criteria will probably not help you succeed in using cloth. Why?

There are many nappies on the market. All offer something different. Some of those features work for some and not others. For example, many parents want a nappy that dries very quickly. For them, a slow drying all in one design will not be suitable. Likewise, a parent who wants an easy to use, no assembly nappy may also find an all in one design is perfect.

There is one nappy on the Aussie market that is extremely popular. But, it seems most either love it or hate it. For everyone who swears by it there is an opponent who argues its faults. How is this possible? For starters some children need more absorbency options then this nappy can provide. Others find the fit way too trim for their chubby baby. Others have their child grow out of it way before toilet training. My point is, it comes down to the individual child (and this point emphasises that just because a nappy is popular or perfect for one child, will not make it so for you).

Our Baby Bare nappy design is generally a good fit on most babies from birth until toilet training. It has received great reviews. It can double as a pocket nappy, or an all in two with the detachable inserts. The absorbency can be easily boosted with our trifold booster (and for some very exciting news: we have a new night booster currently in production & on its way, which has been specifically designed to sit in the nappy without adding excess bulk, but plenty of absorbency!). We have a trial pack so parents can try before buying a full set of our nappies.

You do not need to pay a fortune for a good nappy. There are plenty of fantastic nappies on the lower price scale. Many at the top end cost more for a pretty print or the expensive branding associated with the brand. So shop around, read lots of reviews and ask questions. But be careful, a lot of the $3 nappies are being rebranded and sold for prices as ridiculous as $30 a nappy (a dead giveaway is a pocket design, with rectangular microfibre inserts).

When buying your nappy stash, set yourself a budget that is realistic. Buying good nappies will save you in the long run from switching to disposables or having to throw out all those $3 nappies that fell apart.

Rule # 3 - Follow the care instructions of the nappy

Your gorgeous nappies have arrived in the post. You're so excited about them, you cant wait to put them on your baby. But before that dream can become a reality, you need to work out how you prepare them for use.

Even babies love the feel of a freshly laundered modern cloth nappy!

Each manufacturer will give you a set of care instructions. It is generally neccessary to follow these in order to experience success with your nappies and to ensure you don't void any available warranties.

If you want to succeed with cloth, nappies need to be properly cared for. Nappies that are not properly prepared for use, will leak as they need all the manufacturing additives removed to help them absorb. This also removes any nasties that your child might react to.

Long term care is equally important. The way you wash and store your nappies may effect the life of them. Exposing them to heat (dryer, excess sunshine or hot water) may deteriorate the elastics and the water proofing. Adding certain chemicals may also effect the elastics. For example, many users recommend the repetitive use of vinegar to soften nappies. Vinegar is an acid, and it will over time eat away at your nappies. The occasional use with a proper rinse will be OK, but adding vinegar to your nappies constantly may see them deteriorate very quickly.

Bleaches and products like napisan will also effect the longevity of your nappies as these chemicals will eat away at your nappies. Some detergents and fabric softeners will build up over time and effect the nappies absorbency.

Our general care instructions  are easy to follow and make using cloth nappies nice and easy. Just a few basic rules - only use a nappy friendly detergent, don't use your dryer and wash frequently (to avoid urine eating your nappies!). It may seem complicated at first but its actually the easiest washing you will do!

If you ever have any questions just contact us

Modern Cloth Nappies tips to succeed - #2 Change Often

When starting out with cloth nappies you need to be realistic. A nappy is not meant to last a whole day. Nappies need to be changed regularly - not only because they leak but for the comfort and health of your child.

 Many parents give up on cloth because they find their child wetting through their nappy in a few hours, which seems too often. Disposables seem to last all day, if they have to. 

Children should be changed when wet or dirty. Leaving a baby in a soiled nappy can lead to bad rashes and ongoing anxiety in the child about change times. A baby with a sore or irritated bottom will resent being changed when it hurts to be wiped and cleaned up.

Both wee and poo will burn your babies delicate skin even in a disposable. Even though disposable nappies are designed to make your child feel dry, the reality is your babies skin is still in contact with their waste.

In order to succeed with cloth nappies you need to be prepared to change often, but then again, even in disposables you should change your child when wet or dirty. Just because a nappy can hold a child's weight in wee, doesn't mean it should. Our Baby Bare nappies can last up to 4 hours, depending on your child. They can be boosted for longer term absorbency. But, really, the nappy should be changed once your child has wet or dirtied it.

Look for nappies with options to boost absorbency in case your child is a heavy wetter. Sometimes its not feasible to change after every single wee, or your child may wet a lot at once. Being able to boost a nappy will also help ensure you can adapt a nappy to your child and succeed with cloth!

Ten ways to succeed using Cloth Nappies - #1 Believe in your reasons for using cloth nappies

I’ve made this the first and foremost, because without it, you have to wonder what you are doing here. No amount of marketing can truly get you to believe that cloth is the easiest choice. It isn’t (but its not a difficult choice). But, if you are a parent who is choosing to use cloth nappies, you are making the decision that it is the best choice for you. What ever reasons you have found to lead you to that decision, you need to reassure yourself with them and believe in them. Without this, I honestly believe you will fail in your endeavours to cloth nappy your child(ren).

If you are convinced on budget reasons, you need to stand by that. You need to believe that cloth nappies will be cheaper, that you can invest your money elsewhere and not throw it out with the trash (literally). You need to believe it is worth the little bit of extra effort ,and your savings justify the initial layout, washing and care. Within months you will have paid off your stash and nappying will basically be free. Start thinking about what your family is doing with the extra $30 odd a week.

If your reasons are for your child, you need to be passionate about them. The health of their skin, the natural aspect of cloth rather than chemicals and plastics, breathability of their nappy etc need to be important enough to you to commit to this.

You may have chosen, or are contemplating cloth nappies because of the environment, because of the cute look of them, because of the nostalgic feeling of doing what generations before us have done. Everyone will have different reasons for choosing to use cloth nappies. Where it comes undone is where you forget along the way why you started. What you wanted to achieve - for your wallet or your child.

Many parents give up because they come to believe that none of their previous reasons for cloth can be justified by the effort of washing them and dealing with ‘mess’. What I say to many parents is(mainly friends who seek my honest opinion), there are times you will hit a wall. You won’t want to wash them, you wont want to fold them etc. But, if you persevere, you accept that cloth is what you want to do, those feelings will quickly fade. After a couple of months, using cloth nappies will become like wearing clothes. They need to be washed and folded. They are just one small job. Don’t dwell on it, don’t analyse it, just do it! In my experience the majority of parents who give up, do so around the 6-8 week mark. The novelty wears off and they give up. If you stick with it past that turning point, you will most likely succeed because it becomes your routine.

To parents who are not convinced that cloth is for them, but would really like it to be. I urge you to try it out. Buy a few nappies. Put them on your child. Wash them and see how you go. Your investment is small. You will either fall in love (almost certainly), or you will quickly decide you want to use disposables.

Cloth Nappies – Why are you paying more?!

There are a lot of articles and discussions going on regarding "China Cheapies" or Cheap Cloth Nappies. One such discussion was questioning the practises of "brands" and how they justify the price of their nappies. After all, if someone can sell a nappy on ebay for about $3, why do brands sell these for $10, $20, or even up to $50? I was told on a Facebook forum yesterday that buyers are obviously being ripped off by any nappy brand charging them more then $10 or so for a nappy. This blog is to help enlighten you of the costs of running a legitimate business.

So what are these costs? I've tried to break it down as simply as possible:

Product
Most brands have taken time to produce their own nappy design. This has involved design, user testing, re-designing, fabric sourcing etc. If the production of the nappy is outsourced then that takes time too.

I spend hours upon hours discussing with my supplier how best to create my product. I use specialised and unique fabrics made for me, which my supplier doesn't supply to others. This means extra costs as all fabrics are short runs in a particular colour. Yes, I could use the same fabric you see on many CC nappies if I wanted, and source it much more cheaply. But I choose to get a heavier weight and higher quality minky. In cheaper nappies, in addition to being lighter weight, the fabrics are also produced in huge quantities. You would notice how many companies have the same patterns on their nappies. This is because this material is cheap from being produced in massive bulk numbers.

Bamboo is also much heavier weight then the average nappy fabric. We use bamboo fleece which is a more expensive fabric then micro fibre  We use it because it's natural, more absorbent, and has great properties suited to nappies.

Using good quality elastic and a good lamination on the minky to ensure waterproofing is also costly. Some cheaper fabrics use very cheap and quick processes to laminate the fabrics and the lamination does not last. This means your nappies will start leaking soon after use.

Sourcing labour to make the nappies from fair and ethical factories also adds cost. Finding fabrics that are safe for use and properly manufactured also attracts a high cost. If a company sources labour in Australia, then they are paying a large premium for this.

As you can see, the sheer difference in the cost of producing the product alone will make a huge difference. A CC nappy can be bought for a couple of dollars off eBay, but these nappies usually come direct from China and it is usually uncertain how it has been made or what materials and chemicals were used in its manufacturing.

Warranty
Built into the cost of a product is the chance something might go wrong with it. No amount of effort can ensure a problem-free product. If snaps come off, stitching comes undone, elastics suffer problems, zippers come off bags – they need to be replaced. Add the cost of the product and the cost of postage and this is an expensive exercise for any warranty claim. Generally, the cost of faults in the products are borne by the importer. So they have to bare the expense of any replacements.

As a purchaser you may want to consider what a warranty is worth. If you pay for a $10 nappy that falls apart, by the time you replace it you could have received a better product with a replacement warranty!

In addition to this is the problem with lost parcels. It is very common for customers to say they never received a parcel. If a business owner agrees to resend a parcel, they do so at a cost to themselves. It has not been unusual in my business to lose a great deal of money resending lost articles. Australia Post takes no responsibility and it's important that customers walk away happy – after all we want our customers to be happy but we must also protect ourselves from poor reviews and feedback that are often received even if not the fault of the business.

Insurance
Insurance protects the seller and the buyer. But it comes at a huge cost. Product and Public Liability insurances are essential for a business. But many businesses operate without them. Just think if something went wrong with a product you purchased and someone in your family was sick or injured – you will hope the business is insured to ensure you have some recourse and that you do not bear the cost of happenings beyond your control.

Duty and GST
It costs a lot to import products into Australia (or even make purchases within Australia). Duty on nappies is 10%. Add another 10% for GST (whether the seller is registered for GST or not). Some sellers avoid paying these fees by bringing in small numbers of nappies (like a few hundred) and do not have to pay these fees. The greater the value of the nappy coming in, the greater the costs. For example, if I buy a $2 nappy and import it, I pay about 40¢ in duty and GST. I import an $8 nappy and I pay $1.60 in duty and GST.  But if I only import under $1000 worth of goods then I pay nothing at all!

Advertising
So once you have your product in the country you need to get people to buy it. How do you get your name out there? Even a very minimal advertising budget is costly. A click on Google ads is upwards of about $1. That's $1 just to have someone view your site. Ads in magazines, expo attendances, directory listings – these all add up. Running a giveaway costs the business owner money. There is no guarantee of any business from it. What's worse is when someone wins your product for free to go on to sell it at a discount and undercut you. All those hours of hard work and suddenly you are competing for a sale against someone you generously gave a prize to.

Shipping
Many companies absorb shipping costs. When you see that they have a flat rate of shipping it doesn't mean they pay less for shipping. It means they are willing to absorb shipping costs if the order goes over that. If you order more then about 3 nappies, you are looking at upwards of $12 to ship the parcel. Every additional cent of shipping charges is being absorbed.

Book keeping
Regulation requires you keep records of income and expenditure. This takes valuable time and money to complete.

Registering your business
Registration of business name, trademarks, designs, etc. come at a cost. A legitimate business will follow these. Many fail to register for their ABN or business name, and don't complete tax returns etc. Some claim they are only operating a hobby – these 'hobbyists' have an immediate advantage to others as they are avoiding paying tax and contributing to the community in valuable tax revenue.

Website
Setting up a website requires a lot of work. Paying for hosting fees, domain names, and web support all cost money. Updating that site with new products, sales, and information come at a cost too.

Other
Storage fees, petrol to deliver your goods to the post office, stationery, packaging, product photography, shipping products into the country (think port fees, customs and quarantine fees, etc.), sending samples overseas and paying for them to be made up and shipped back: the list goes on and on. Larger companies hire staff to do marketing, attend expos, answer emails, and pack orders. They also require office space and warehouses.

As you can see, there are many overheads for a business selling a unique product and operating legitimately.

Paying the Work at Home Mum Behind the Business
This is the last step. If anything is left after paying for everything else, the WAHM might get some pay for the hundreds of hours that she put into getting the product into your hands. From ordering it, to getting it shipped, storing it, photographing it, putting it on the website, and finally packing it into a bag and taking it to the post office. Many WAHMs work for much less then minimum wage – sometimes for nothing at all!

As a WAHM, I am on call all the time. I want to offer a quick response and good service in the hope that people have a good experience dealing with our business. I cannot risk bad reviews online if someone is unhappy. One bad review will have a much greater impact then 10 glowing ones.

Customers come back months after buying a nappy and ask for advice. Customers who aren't even purchasers ask questions requiring my time and attention. Answering emails, dealing with warranty claims, and ordering products all take up a huge portion of my time.

So what is the point of this blog?
I hope this helps you realise why businesses charge what they do for a legitimate product. Many "China Cheapy" resellers avoid a lot of these costs. Many sell on eBay or Facebook with practically no overheads. They claim it is a hobby, and they have no personal design or user testing to deal with. No insurance, no GST or duties, no advertising, no regulatory fees, no website. So before casting judgement about the nappy "brands" earning a fortune and overcharging I ask you to consider these issues and see that really a quality nappy at $20 is an absolute bargain for what has gone into it.

When you look at it like this, a $3 nappy doesn't even compare...

Modern Cloth Nappies at Night - Boosting

I get asked a lot about getting nappies to last overnight. Using cloth overnight seems to be a great challenge for many parents. The key to success is getting enough absorbency in the nappy to hold your child's output.

Ensure you change your child right before putting them to bed and as soon as they wake. Prepare a well boosted night nappy for bed time. Our Baby Bare cub can be used with one or two boosters depending on how much your child needs. Many nappy brands talk about the layers of absorbency, but the issue is more then layers. Its the amount of fabric you have in a nappy. One layer could be 10cm squared or it could be 50cm squared. Our boosters add plenty of fabric as they are two sheets of bamboo fleece, 28cm x 28cm. They can hold about 100ml each. You will also need to include the usual hourglass nappy insert.

When putting on the nappy for night its important to make sure you have a good seal around the legs and waist. If you still experience leaks, try buying a wool cover. These will absorb any moisture that leaks from your nappy, but they will not wick it onto your child's clothes. This will keep your child dry.

Many parents shop far and wide looking for a solution to night nappies. In the end it is really about having enough fabric in the nappy. If you have a nappy that is a good fit during the day, it isn't that it fails to fit well at night. It is simply that it needs to hold much more at night. So to survive night nappying... Boost, Boost and Boost! Where that fails use an extra cover!

Good luck and always feel free to contact us if you want some advice to make cloth work better for you!